THE LIBRA WOMAN

 

Classy, sociable and passionate, Libra is a sign with its own unique brand of sexy! If you like a lady who always looks good, can charm anyone, and also embraces her feminine and wild sides then look no further!

Always fashionable, elegant and well groomed, she is tasteful and sophisticated, with an eye for quality, beauty and harmony in all things. Refined and caring the Libra woman loves everything about romance, seduction and partnership. She will constantly work towards improving a relationship, and care for her partner both physically and emotionally.

Among the most sociable of all the signs, she probably has a very large network of friends and a hectic social life. This can make dating difficult initially unless you like crowds, and can often leave you wondering where exactly you fit into her life. Libras can also come across as somewhat egotistical at times, which can compound this situation.

Beautiful, romantic and tragic

One common quirk of Libra women is that of getting depressed easily. Partly this is because they genuinely feel the world should always be fair and beautiful, and the reality of course is that sometimes it just isn't. What others shrug off in this area a Libra sometimes just can't accept. This broken-hearted approach to life can be both endearing, or off-putting, depending on your viewpoint. It does create a unique and powerful counter point to their otherwise passionate approach to life for those who appreciate contrast and complexity in a partner.

THE LIBRA MAN

When a Libra man falls in love, he will see the subject of his affection as a person he is going to marry. He can be quite dependent on feeling attractive and loved, but you will know he loves you when he starts talking about marriage. This can happen at the beginning of a relationship and a Libra man can move too fast, scaring his partner away with expectations that seem unreal. This is a consequence of the Air element of Libra that gives this man speed and intent, with a need to follow his ideas through. The incredible thing about him is his ability to rush into love and marriage even though his sign exalts Saturn and we would expect him to slow down and wait for the right moment. Someone would say that he wouldn’t take things that lightly, but the fact is he can’t waste his time on relationships with no future or depth. He simply thinks it is best to know where he stands right away.

With a bruised ego, a Libra man can act like a little, insulted child. It takes a lot of effort and lucky family circumstances in his life, for him to be aware that not everything is a personal insult intended to hurt him. Whatever the situation in the insult department, this is a man who will stay in a relationship for a long time if he decides to be with someone. He will not give up at the first sight of difficulty and he will trust his feelings without a doubt. In most situations he will remain calm and try to show a just way to resolve any issue in his partner’s life or their relationship. When he obsessively gives in, thinking he found the love of his life, there is a great chance he will put too much focus on his partner lacking the ability to turn to himself and build his own life.

BEST LOVE MATCH: GEMINI + LIBRA

Gemini and Libra are both guided by the element of Air and this should give them a good start for their mental connection and verbal understanding. When it comes to sex, this is a plus, for they will both be free to communicate anything that bothers or satisfies them. Fragile ego of Libra can be lifted by Gemini’s charm and approach to sex. They seem to know how to make everything a little less serious and this will help their Libra partner open up and share their emotions through sex, too. When Gemini partner sees how mellow Libra can be, although they seem so tactful and cold, they won’t have much choice but to share emotions as well.

The main goal in their sexual life is, in fact, to balance these emotions. Libra is a sign ruled by Venus, sexual, sensual and seductive, while Gemini is ruled by Mercury, having no sexual or emotional wisdom. The basis of a good sex life between them is their curiosity, for Libra is always curious about their partner, as much as Gemini is curious about everything else. Although Libra might be indecisive, Gemini won’t have a problem thinking of a different approach and finding new techniques, words and adventures to spice up their sexual encounters.

When Libra decides to be with someone, even if it is after a long, hard inner battle, they will probably believe in their words and their actions. When they choose a partner, they choose them for their character and their straightforward nature. Libra has no reason to doubt their own judgment and will probably believe their Gemini in every case, except when their dishonesty is too obvious. In return, Gemini will respect Libra’s need to flirt in order to be accepted and loved by other people. Not only will they not find this threatening, but they will actually enjoy a consequence of this behavior – their own freedom.

Gemini partner is very opinionated and Libra has a tendency to take a lot of things their partner says as a personal insult. Although Gemini will, in most cases, just follow their rational nature and comment on things simply because they want to talk, it will be hard on Libra to overcome some of the things they might say. The sign of Libra is very sensitive to any sort of will imposing or criticism and will recognize it even when Gemini has no idea what their partner is imagining. Who’s to say which one of them is right?

Since no two people can agree on everything every time each of them opens their mouth to speak, Gemini and Libra can have a very hurtful and tough communication due to the mutual lack of tolerance. Gemini partner would rather go blind than accept that they have a lack of tolerance, but the truth is they can be quite strict when it comes to someone’s mental activity and their opinions. Libra is in most cases hurt enough by the pressure on their personality produced in their primal family, so they will have a very bad response to this behavior even if Gemini meant nothing wrong.

The main issue here is in the fact that Gemini lives to learn and teach what they have learned. They often present themselves as someone who knows things, and Libra can see this as their need to prove their intellectual dominance. Even though this isn’t their intention in most cases, sometimes a single sentence Gemini said can be something Libra feels hurt by for years to come. Libra can learn from a teacher, from someone who has proven their worth, but hardly from their know-it-all partner.

The way Libra’s emotions develop is something really suitable for Gemini. They seem to be in sync while Libra partner searches for depth, and Gemini flies around looking for a new discovery. They won’t even notice as love between them starts to show, one of them running around and the other thinking about reasons why they wouldn’t be perfect together.

We could say that neither of them is very emotional, but Libra is ruled by Venus, so there is a strong link to an emotional plain here. The problem develops when they both talk too much about their emotions, while none of them stops to actually feel. They can remain detached and distant, unless Libra falls in love deeply enough to follow their Gemini partner wherever they go, and Gemini falls in love deeply enough for all words to lose meaning.

While Libra will value consistency and someone being responsible and reliable, Gemini will be very different from this, with opposing values as well. Gemini will value someone’s creativity and intellectual strength and this is something Libra can’t respond to if their Sun is in its lowest state. Their meeting point is in their value of intellect, however strange it may seem. They are both Air signs and give a lot of attention to their partner’s mental personality and the way they think. They could find a way to tease each other with words, seduce each other and in the end find a way to communicate everything else – in case they both care enough.

Libra is your typical activity chameleon when they fall in love. They want to examine the world of their partner, beginning to end, and will gladly follow them around in all their activities expecting the same in return. However, this can end in an unfortunate way, leaving Libra with their energy drained and wishes not granted. Gemini just doesn’t care about following their partner only because they want to be followed. Both of them need to keep their expectations low and let their partner surprise them by something new and exciting. They will enjoy various activities together, but in order to do so, they need to respect each other’s limits and desires to begin with.